How to Date a Girl who has a Boyfriend
If you have met or know a girl who is dating and you think you are the best man for her, how can you get her? There are things you can do to convince her to leave the other man and be with you. After all life is about who makes you happy.
The first thing you have to find about her is the
seriousness of the relationship she is in. It might save you a lot of wasted
time if she is completely taken but hey if you think you can be a better man
for her it’s something you should give it a try. If her relationship looks like
something you can take a bold step and ask her about how she feels about the relationship.
Try to be a more fun guy around her and gauge her interest levels in you.
Interest is important to you unless you want to end up in the dreaded friend
zone or worse, her male girlfriend.
Another way to go about it is ask her out like you have no
idea she is dating. Just play your game man and never worry about the animals
in the park. If your game is tight then you must already know that the fall of
empires and establishment of new kingdoms is the story of our lives. You won’t
be doing anything new if a girl likes you more and wants to stay with you more
than her boring boyfriend. Girls just want to have fun right? You be the fun,
or the definition of it.
Become a challenge to her and never reveal your interest levels
in her. This is one way to steer clear of the friend zone. A good rule of the
thumb is to love her with actions, not words. We do not speak the same language
women do and body language works better for men. You don’t want to be the mushy
mushy guy around women. Women have an affinity for breaking such guys’ hearts.
Avoid letting her get away with dating two guys. If she
cheats on him, she will cheat on you. After all you were comfortable with it
right from the start. Avoid as much as you can being the side dish. If she
likes you enough or even loves you, ask her to break off the relationship with
the other guy. It might be a good way to find out whether she is really into
you or she is just having the better of two guys.
Always remember that game can be upped and if a guy has a girl
you really want to be with, just up the ante and go for her. Life is about
better and better. If you can give her a better relationship then why should
she be with someone else? Dress the part, meet other people and try dating
other girls to avoid being too available. Trust me it will improve your chances
of success with the apple of your eye.
Avoid attachment. Inasmuch as you want a woman badly, it’s
never good for you if you have to beg for her affection. It reduces you from a
virile warrior to a poor wimp. You attract women by displaying male
characteristics like control, confidence and power. Develop portraying yourself
as a better man instead of trying to convince her you are. Women can see better
than they can hear.
